How and where to find a findomme ?
Findom or financial domination is a fetish of the mind. It’s thrill revolves around the idea of taking risk of handing money to a woman who now has the power to change your monotonous predictable life.
If you are a submissive man who is looking for a dominant woman to worship her or allow her to take some control, now it is time to find your best fit. The first step is to know what kind of female dominant dynamic you want. For this go to my entries on female domination and what is findom and understand if your fetish really revolves around money or you are more the type of domestic task.
It is also important for you to understand what type of submissive you are or what kind of things you like in your slave/dom dynamic I have written here the general types of submissives I have encountered, so you have an idea of what do you expect from your dom and how to tell if that dom is a good fit.
After you have an idea of your taste in dommes now you can start to look for your perfect goddess online.
Where to find findommes or girls who like to have money sent to them?
Can I just send to random women online and where to find them?
Some slaves just wish they could pick a girl from instagram and send her some money. This might be a thing that you can do, but be sure to not send money to a woman who is not into this fetish. Woman who are not openminded can take it very badly or even think you are a scammer who is trying to get money from them.
That said, there is a difference of course between a woman who likes to be sent money and a findome. A woman without the character or the mindset of a findomme can easily fall into a submissive attitude and get the idea that she has to perform a sexual act or a favor in return for the financial power exchange. This is not at all the truth.
Pro dommes and woman into financial fetishes are normally banned or shadow banned from social media platforms, so as a general rule they might not hang out on instagram or tik Tok, so a fair amount of them will go to twitter and public forums such as reddit.
Fetish Clip Sites, are other ways to find a financial dominatrix and engage with a domme if you feel drawn after viewing her clips. IWantClips is normally where I post my videos and audios. Other clip sites with a “findom” category include Clips4Sale and Kinkbomb. Manyvids is more vanilla oriented but offers “fetish” and “findom” subcategories.
Other mainstream ways to find findommes is just to google them in google search. Woman who are genuinely interested about this lifestyle have their own webpage. Some like me, write about financial domination and femdom fantasies
Many Pro domes feel very safe on twitter as it is a platform that encourages free speech. You can find them with the hashtags #findom #finantialdomination or #paypig. I personally use twitter and feel safe on it.
Reddit is another website were you can find a safe space to talk about your dark fantasies with people like you. There are many domes that share their pictures, their audios and their videos there. I like to interact with some subs here and there who follow my reddit profile and share my post.
Youtube
As a true goddess I enjoy very much making videos for my submissives on my YouTube channel where I recreate humiliation fantasies, worship fantasies or therapist role play.
LoyalFans
LoyalFans has an “explore” page which makes it easier to find a findomme. I use this platform for doing draining sessions and get tributes from my slaves.
Niteflirt
is one of the oldest phone sex sites online with a “financial domination” category. It allows finsubs to chat, call, buy clips and cam with their favorite dommes. For example, you can find my call line here.
What Payment Methods Do Findommes Accept?
This depends solely on the findomme. Many findommes accept Cash App or paypayl (which I only use with long term subs) Personally, I only accept tributes via wishtender or LoyalFans for first time subs and we disclose personal payment platforms for long term subs. The more mainstream platforms of payment have clauses in their TOS prohibiting transactions of an adult nature.