Findom is the abbreviation of Financial Domination, where a submissive man exchanges his power to a dominant woman through money. Sometimes these men can be referred as:
Pay pigs, Piglets, Cashcows, Losers, Human ATM (see an alternate definition here), walking ATM, Subs, Finsubs, Pupps, money slave, money pig, cash slave and bitch.
The findomme would like to be refferd as: Goddess, mistress, dominatrix, findomme, financial dominatrix. Some humilliatrix gravitate towards findom too.
The mistress, or goddess, controls the slave’s finances in a number of ways. This can include the slave giving the mistress a proportion of their income in tribute, paying for online shopping items for the goddess and even subsidising their vacation.
Every slave should have a unique idea of how they like to be called and what kind of type relationship they are looking for with their dome. It is very important that you know if you are looking for a ruthless financial humilliatrix who drains you out of your savings or more of a gentle dome who pushes your boundaries slowly to see how far can you take it. I personally love financial domination, here I tell you a little more about the type of financial dominant goddess I am.
How do I know I am a submissive slave?
A financial slave should have a sense of pleasure and even arousal when sending money to the findom he chose, if you feel the need to ask for anything in return you might not be in the right place. A findome will acknowledge a financial slave’s existence and discuss further with him to get in to his darkest needs, based on the interaction the domme will decide if the financial slave is valuable of her time, energy and if they share the same fetishes. For the pay pig, seeing that their goddess is happy and satisfied with spending their hard-earned money is part of the pleasure.
How to approach a findomme?
As the bare minimum and a sign of commitment if you liked the findom you have been following for a while, you like the style or the way she behaves on her videos, a minimum amount of money should be send.
Why money?
Because it’s the point of financial domination. In case you might find these overwhelming, you might want to check for other types of female domination instead. Why some findomes ask for a tribute upfront? To filter you (real finsub) from all the other time wasters that approach her with pointless messages.
Picture tweet from a fins (Arab looser sending money to differentiate himself from the rest (put that on Pinterest)
What kind of offerings can I give to a goddess?
Depending on if you are a short term slave or a long term slave you can offer your goddess these money offerings:
Gifts
Tithes
Tributes
Click here to see some ways in which long term owned slaves happily pay.
Financial Domination Gifts
A Findome will usually provide a list of items she desires, offering her slaves the possibility to earn her attention. I personally have a wishlist where a slave can easily find the wish he wants to offer me, so I will acknowledge his existence.
Financial Domination Tithes
Tithing is a consistent offering sent on a schedule and a common practice for slaves who are owned in the long term. As soon as a slave receive your regular earnings, 10% (or the percentage discussed with the findome) is to be immediately sent to your Mistress as your Tithe. The percentage of the tithe should be high enough tho, a true slave would never dream of tending to his own needs before sending a Tithe to his Goddess.
Financial Domination Tributes
Are spontaneous offerings used to express your devotion and desire to please your Mistress. The tributes that I get for my slaves are normally impulsive offerings as a natural result of the constant building desire and a burning need to please me and express their adoration for me. My tributes are normally sent on wishlist here on the category of tribute and on my fan platform here.
How to send money to a findome I like?
Every findom has her typical payment methods, depending on the country she resides, I use loyal fans and wishtender as my ways for tributes, other people use cash app.
Warning: If you’re thinking about entering a financial domination relationship, then take the time to find out that your goddess acts ethically and reasonably. There are very good and experienced findoms out there. Like any fetish, know your limits.