What is FLR?

A female-led relationship (also written as FLR), is traditionally a type of BDSM relationship between a dominant woman and a submissive man. Normally the woman likes being in control and the man likes playing a more subordinate role.

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FLR is a relationship where the female, or femme, is the decision-maker for the other partner. This could be anything from their finances to their attire to more menial tasks like chores. On this case the dynamic is up to the two people who established the relationship, some examples might include: 

• The man’s role is largely submissive and obedient, whether in the relationship, in bed, or both also has domestic responsibilities
• The woman is the chief decision-maker in the relationship, including finance, including controlling what the man is or isn’t allowed to spend money on.
• The woman’s thoughts, feelings, and perspectives are given priority over the man’s in the relationship.
• The woman is sexually dominant, and most sexual encounters revolve around her pleasure and decides when and how to have sex. 

An FLR can allow men to remove the pressure of devotion making, helping them to feel free to choose their own path, open them selves up to who they really live a fuller life.

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Goddess Vera views on femdom and female lead relationship

I love the dominant role in a relationship, regardless, what the acts of service I find arousing are around the idea of goddess worship and financial tributes. I am a creator of fantasies so I love to create scenarios where my submissive feel at ease, sometimes those imply they imagining they are domestic slaves that perform the chores of the house while their goddess rest and enjoys herself. In real life, most of my subs offer me tributes and pay for my bills because it’s their place and my birthright, I would consider myself more of a findom who enjoys fantasy femdom scenarios. 

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