What is submissive training on findom (BDSM)?
The idea of Submissive training in financial domination comes from it’s roots in BDSM. Remember BDSM stands for bondage/discipline and implies dominance and submission. It is also part of the umbrella terms sadism and masochism. By definition this implies there is a disciplinary role taken by the domme, who likes to plan and structure task, shape behavior and off course be pleased. The domme has her counterpart (the submissive) who enjoys being disciplined, dominated, likes to follow structure, perform task, enjoys self sacrifice and loves to serve.
So based on what I said before, in a long term BDSM relationship (such as financial domination relationship) the dominant leads her submissive into activities in order to give him guidance and a sense of confort, those activities in the end are created to train him into fit a better role of submission (suitable for the domme they are serving).
To train correctly a submissive, a dominant should encourage the behaviors they think will make a good submissive, and discourage those that they think won’t make the slave a good submissive, all this done through a process called conditioning.
What Is Conditioning? (Behavioral Learning)
Conditioning is a behavioral process whereby a response becomes more frequent or more predictable in a given environment as a result of reinforcement, with reinforcement typically being a stimulus or reward for a desired response.
Why a slave needs to be conditioned? What is the appeal on it?
The appeal on wanting to be trained comes from the understanding that is the most extreme form of power exchange. When a slave finds a goddess he respects and admires, he finds a sense of purpose and meaning in a carefully crafted training also known as slave training.
During this process a submissive endures a protocol in order earn a place as a slave. The Dominant will instruct and teach the submissive on the proper protocol according to that particular dominant’s desires.
Sometimes this dynamic can fall into some sort of practice known as “dominant life coaching”, that is when a dominant uses their power and control over a submissive to force them to make changes in their personal life, for their betterment as a human being. This can include coaching around diet and exercise or life skills.
This is why I take my role as a domina very seriously with devoted slaves who have earned it. In order to be one of this lucky slaves you must to have to had been consistent with your tributes, and have been previously approved to be my long term slave after filling the long term slave form here .
How to train a submissive?
There are a couple of methods I explain in depth here on how to train a submissive. The most powerful ways I train my submissive are these audios and videos you can find here.
The goal of the submissive training: Submissive Skill/Behavior Development
A true submissive wants to excel at his servant role, and, in order to do that, he has to learn to adapt to the dominant’s Individual Preferences. In my case you will learn to how to serve better, how to please me, and to have the privilege to make a beautiful educated and elegant woman’s life better We will actively work on your demeanor to give your meaningless life a purpose. Though my conditioning you will develop:
- Self discipline
- A sense of purpose
- Financial discipline
- A smart use of your finances
- New skills
- Hobbies that keep you sane and focused
You will:
- Know what is to have a life of purpose and selflessness.
- Actively be trained to get rid of bad habits that might be holding you back from being your best (I want my slaves to be the best servants)
- Stop with procastination
- to have a proper diet and a healthy schedule
I am a top tier Goddess and I like my slaves to be on the same page.
How do I (Goddess Vera) like to be served?
You can read my post on how to be a good submissive and my expectations as a financial dominatrix here, through my training you will also learn:
- How I like my tribute sent (frequency, how much)
- How much I am expecting from you financially
- Protocols, rules, and consequences